Ch ch ch changin

Okay a while ago Dustin posted about not changing for other people, which people including myself kind of attaced. I think we all know that sometimes we are influenced by other people and not always for the better. It's very easy to say not to change for anyone, I think though that if we take a deeper look it's not always simple. It's not hard to say you will never change for someone untill you meet that person who makes you wan to be a better person. For whatever reason you feel different around them. Sometimes they just make you see things in a different way. Or sometimes they do something stupid that you see and promise not to do that. Or sometimes they just make you want to be better for them and yourself. Like there's nothing in the world that you could give up that would meen more to you then them. And although it may seem like you are changing for them you are really changing for you. You want to be with them so you do what you have to do. And then one day you wake up and you are only doing what you're doing for you. They are no longer a contributing factor. Change is a constant thing. In fact it's the only thing that will ever stay the same. It's very difficult to pin personal change on one other person. So here is to change and growth with a side order of old friendships because that's what gives it flavor.